A blog about teaching babies and toddlers under the age of 5. Sharing my own experiences with the world and hoping to inspire other parents to take this wonderful journey with their own children.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Hello Readers,
I just thought I would share an update with you, while I have been able to do some early learning with my DD most things have completely come to a stand still. This has not deterred me as she is still allowing me to at least read to her quite a bit actually but we are having a lot of disciplining issues at the moment :\ Miss S is very stubborn and even trying to attempt anything with her comes out as an all out argument. She even has issue with me saying its time to get dressed and waiting for any period of time and expecting everything right now. So my husband and I are working on that with her at the moment.
On the other hand my little DD2 is booming along and her signing and reading are coming along beautifully. She is recognising many of the words from Your Baby Can Read and we are diligently doing Little Reader everyday. I look forward to updating her progress more.
Happy Teaching
Kimba
Friday, January 20, 2012
Following the child learning to let go and change the curriculum when needed!
Hello readers,
Lately my eldest dd has been really, really resistant in the early learning department so much so that after trying every tactic in the book and getting increasingly frustrated I have decided to take a break from the curriculum we were following and I am going to work for on the arts, wink program and sports.
I have broken the cardinal rule of enjoying the process and become the drill and kill parent which I hate. I have also become increasingly frustrated with her and feel like I am being played so all of my time and attention is on her rather than her sister. Miss S will ask to do a workbook I will get it out then she will sit there and not do anything or I will go to put it away and she s NO NO NO I WANT TO DO IT. So half of my day is spent is this power struggle. So today I called it quits and said no more, no more game playing and no more power struggles. I will leave the books out but I will focus more on the arts and sports plus wink which I will start doing and if she wants to join in she can.
At the moment it has almost become impossible to teach her and my ever increasing frustration levels are not helping. I need a break to, I need to enjoy her again. I am looking forward to enjoying more time teaching her sister and working with her which I can now do because I wont be locked in a power struggle with Miss S.
I hope the break will be refreshing for us in general and a new direction will help us both. She is still happy to read to me and be read to so not all is lost but I will keep you updated.
Kimba
Lately my eldest dd has been really, really resistant in the early learning department so much so that after trying every tactic in the book and getting increasingly frustrated I have decided to take a break from the curriculum we were following and I am going to work for on the arts, wink program and sports.
I have broken the cardinal rule of enjoying the process and become the drill and kill parent which I hate. I have also become increasingly frustrated with her and feel like I am being played so all of my time and attention is on her rather than her sister. Miss S will ask to do a workbook I will get it out then she will sit there and not do anything or I will go to put it away and she s NO NO NO I WANT TO DO IT. So half of my day is spent is this power struggle. So today I called it quits and said no more, no more game playing and no more power struggles. I will leave the books out but I will focus more on the arts and sports plus wink which I will start doing and if she wants to join in she can.
At the moment it has almost become impossible to teach her and my ever increasing frustration levels are not helping. I need a break to, I need to enjoy her again. I am looking forward to enjoying more time teaching her sister and working with her which I can now do because I wont be locked in a power struggle with Miss S.
I hope the break will be refreshing for us in general and a new direction will help us both. She is still happy to read to me and be read to so not all is lost but I will keep you updated.
Kimba
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Learning to swim
Since it is summer here in Australia, I thought it would be an appropriate time to talk abut teaching your children to swim. My Husband and always knew from the start that both of our children would be learning to swim as soon as they were old enough.
At the swim centre that we attend they start children as young as 5months and as soon as both the girls turned 5 months old we had them in the water. Or should I say back in the water (As they already had spent 9 months in a liquid environment.).
| Miss A (approx 5 months old) awaiting her first lesson. You can already see she is excited |
So why teach them to swim at such a young age? My parents live near the beach and my husband believed it is imperative that they were both water confident and they knew how to swim for their own safety. Me: I learnt to swim at a young age and I have no fear of the water unlike my dad who is terrified of water and says it is only for drinking and bathing (hehehe) I shouldn't laugh but my dad was born in England.
| I Love Swimming My eldest dd awaiting her lesson |
There are other benefits to learning to swim at a young age to and here they are.
| Miss A enjoying her first swimming lesson with her Daddy |
| Miss S is now in the water without a parent but loves swimming |
- Babies less than a year old except the water more readily
- Fear of water is acquired as children grow older: the longer a child is kept away from water the more likely they are to develop a fear of the water
- Babies can exercise more muscles in the water, they are less restricted by gravity and their ability to sit or stand. This increased strength often manifest in early acquisitions of physical skills like walking.
- Swimming improves babies cardiovascular fitness. Although babies are limited in how much they can can improve their endurance. Swimming does have a beneficial effect.
- Early mastery of water movements gives children a head start in learning basic swimming skills.
- Water helps improve co-ordination and balance by forcing babies to move bilaterally to maintain their equilibrium.
- Warm water combined with gentle exercise relaxes and stimulates babies appetites. They usually eat and sleep better on swimming days
- Doctors often recommend swimming as the exercise of choice for asthmatics. For many asthmatics, exercise produces bronchial hyperactivity. Swimming stimulates less wheezing than other forms of exercise, possibly because the warm, moist around the pools is less irritating on the lungs.
- Babies flourish in the focused attention their parents lavish on them during swimming
- Swimming provides babies with lots and lots of skin to skin contact with their parents which psychologists say may deepen the bond between parent and child. (Both my girls swim with their dad. We have made swimming their special thing with Daddy)
- Learning to swim is not only fun, healthy activity but a safety measure as well. (Drowning is the major of accidental death in under 5 in Australia and many who don't drown are left with permanent brain damage)
| Eagerly awaiting instruction |
| Learning from Sue the teacher |
| Fun on the mat |
| Enjoying time with Daddy. Miss A's first lesson |
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Pretend Play: Important or not????
Hi Readers,
I recently read the book, Montessori: The science behind the genius which is an excellent read for those of you wanting to know more about Montessori education. In the book the author goes into to great depths about the theory of play as we know to be important versus what Dr Montessori's own observations were. ( I will refer to Montessori as the education system and Dr Montessori when I am writing about the lady herself.)
Dr Montessori's observation was that children when given the choice to play dress-up or 'do-work' as she called it she observed the children choosing to do the 'work'. She believed that because the children were able to do things for themselves such as prepare their own food and drink were able to clean and look after themselves and that didn't need to engage in pretend play as they could do the things adults do for themselves.
Now from my own observations from watching my eldest daughter go from a day care environment to a Montessori environment I would say Dr Montessori's observation is right on. My eldest Daughter loved nothing more than the dress-up box at day-care and playing house in the home corner or role-playing. At the Montessori school she attends she does not want to play pretend at all but wants to get straight into work. (Which amazes me) and on top of this is already asking me when she is going to go back to school (but that is another blog).
What do the experts say about Pretend Play. Experts believe that pretend play is hugely important especially in cognitive and social development. In social development especially when a child engages in experimenting with emotional and social roles experts believe the child learns to take it turn, share responsibility and creatively solve problems. I think t also helps to teach empathy "by taking a walk in someone else's shoes' so to speak The experts believe it also builds self-esteem by learning they can pretend to be anything they want. With cognitive development each pretend play situation allows the child to problem solve the situation they are'in'. It also helps with language development where children can come up with stories and phrases you never thought they knew.
What do I think? To be honest I lean more towards Dr Montessori's observation of children as I have observed what Dr Montessori observed with my own child and to be honest all the things the experts say pretend play does, it can all be taught in any social situation we may find ourselves in with our children Having said that, I have absolutely no problem with pretend play at all. My eldest daughter has a box full of costumes and even a Dr's kit which has a real working stethoscope (Which I am very excited about) A pretend kitchen at home and with pretend food and all the accessories that go with it. She loves it. I think a little bit of both worlds will give the biggest cognitive benefit of all. and at the end of the day it is something to think about for your own home learning environment.
Here are some photos of Miss S 'engaging in some pretend play
I recently read the book, Montessori: The science behind the genius which is an excellent read for those of you wanting to know more about Montessori education. In the book the author goes into to great depths about the theory of play as we know to be important versus what Dr Montessori's own observations were. ( I will refer to Montessori as the education system and Dr Montessori when I am writing about the lady herself.)
Dr Montessori's observation was that children when given the choice to play dress-up or 'do-work' as she called it she observed the children choosing to do the 'work'. She believed that because the children were able to do things for themselves such as prepare their own food and drink were able to clean and look after themselves and that didn't need to engage in pretend play as they could do the things adults do for themselves.
Now from my own observations from watching my eldest daughter go from a day care environment to a Montessori environment I would say Dr Montessori's observation is right on. My eldest Daughter loved nothing more than the dress-up box at day-care and playing house in the home corner or role-playing. At the Montessori school she attends she does not want to play pretend at all but wants to get straight into work. (Which amazes me) and on top of this is already asking me when she is going to go back to school (but that is another blog).
What do the experts say about Pretend Play. Experts believe that pretend play is hugely important especially in cognitive and social development. In social development especially when a child engages in experimenting with emotional and social roles experts believe the child learns to take it turn, share responsibility and creatively solve problems. I think t also helps to teach empathy "by taking a walk in someone else's shoes' so to speak The experts believe it also builds self-esteem by learning they can pretend to be anything they want. With cognitive development each pretend play situation allows the child to problem solve the situation they are'in'. It also helps with language development where children can come up with stories and phrases you never thought they knew.
What do I think? To be honest I lean more towards Dr Montessori's observation of children as I have observed what Dr Montessori observed with my own child and to be honest all the things the experts say pretend play does, it can all be taught in any social situation we may find ourselves in with our children Having said that, I have absolutely no problem with pretend play at all. My eldest daughter has a box full of costumes and even a Dr's kit which has a real working stethoscope (Which I am very excited about) A pretend kitchen at home and with pretend food and all the accessories that go with it. She loves it. I think a little bit of both worlds will give the biggest cognitive benefit of all. and at the end of the day it is something to think about for your own home learning environment.
Here are some photos of Miss S 'engaging in some pretend play
| Playing Doctor do her Dolly |
| The Camping Princess as Miss S put it preparing something yummy meal with the sand |
| Miss S and Miss A both looking after their babies. |
Sunday, January 8, 2012
I am exhausted!!!! WHO ever thought that 3 year olds were worse than 2 year olds. My Eldest dd is A LOT of hard work at the moment. She is the Queen of the argument , and the Queen of Resistance. I almost need a holiday from her so I can refresh and have enough energy to do battle with her again.
Before I had children and my friends with children would say man I have had a hard day with my child. You say no and they go back and do it anyway. Take things away and they don't care and so on and so on. I would think "How hard can it be I work full time and your at home with the kids" 'It's not like your working" and then I had children of my own!!! AND I HAVE NEVER WORKED SO HARD IN MY LIFE. Being a parent really is the hardest job in the world and I know many of my friends go to work to escape and have a moment of peace or just to go to the toilet on their own.
Now I appreciate what Mums do. It really is hard work but it is rewarding. I just wish my 3 year old would grow out of this behaviour!!!!
My rant for today.
Kimba
Before I had children and my friends with children would say man I have had a hard day with my child. You say no and they go back and do it anyway. Take things away and they don't care and so on and so on. I would think "How hard can it be I work full time and your at home with the kids" 'It's not like your working" and then I had children of my own!!! AND I HAVE NEVER WORKED SO HARD IN MY LIFE. Being a parent really is the hardest job in the world and I know many of my friends go to work to escape and have a moment of peace or just to go to the toilet on their own.
Now I appreciate what Mums do. It really is hard work but it is rewarding. I just wish my 3 year old would grow out of this behaviour!!!!
My rant for today.
Kimba
Saturday, January 7, 2012
My 1000 book challenge. Upping the anti on reading to the kids.
Hi readers
I have decided this year to up the anti on reading to my kidlets. I have entered into the 1000 book challenge on the Brillkids Forum. Of all the things I do for early learning this is the one I fail at the most or I am least consistent on and that is reading to my Kids. I find that I just do not make time for it in my schedule of things to do. BUT this year that is going to change. Don't get me wrong I do read to them but it is just not every day and that is what I want to change.
The rules are.
Why is reading to children so important? From the website earlymoments.com
• A stronger relationship with you. As your child grows older, he’ll be on the move—playing, running, and constantly exploring his environment. Snuggling up with a book lets the two of you slow down and recaptures that sweet, cuddly time you enjoyed when he was a baby. Instead of being seen as a chore or a task, reading will become a nurturing activity that will bring the two of you closer together.
• Academic excellence.
One of the primary benefits of reading to toddlers and preschoolers is a
higher aptitude for learning in general. Numerous studies have shown
that students who are exposed to reading before preschool are more
likely to do well in all facets of formal education. After all, if a
student struggles to put together words and sentences, how can he be
expected to grasp the math, science, and social concepts he’ll be
presented with when he begins elementary school?
• Basic speech skills. Throughout toddlerhood and preschool, your child is learning critical language and enunciation skills. By listening to you read One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish, your child is reinforcing the basic sounds that form language. “Pretend reading”—when a toddler pages through a book with squeals and jabbers of delight—is a very important pre-literacy activity. As a preschooler, your child will likely begin sounding out words on his own.
• The basics of how to read a book. Children aren’t born with an innate knowledge that text is read from left to right, or that the words on a page are separate from the images. Essential pre-reading skills like these are among the major benefits of early reading.
• Better communication skills. When you spend time reading to toddlers, they’ll be much more likely to express themselves and relate to others in a healthy way. By witnessing the interactions between the characters in the books you read, as well as the contact with you during story time, your child is gaining valuable communication skills.
• Mastery of languages. Early reading for toddlers has been linked to a better grasp of the fundamentals of language as they approach school age.
• More logical thinking skills. Another illustration of the importance of reading to children is their ability to grasp abstract concepts, apply logic in various scenarios, recognize cause and effect, and utilize good judgment. As your toddler or preschooler begins to relate the scenarios in books to what’s happening in his own world, he’ll become more excited about the stories you share.
• Acclamation to new experiences. As your child approaches a major developmental milestone or a potentially stressful experience, sharing a relevant story is a great way to help ease the transition. For instance, if your little one is nervous about starting preschool, reading a story dealing with this topic shows her that her anxiety is normal.
• Enhanced concentration and discipline. Toddlers may initially squirm and become distracted during story time, but eventually they’ll learn to stay put for the duration of the book. Along with reading comprehension comes a stronger self-discipline, longer attention span, and better memory retention, all of which will serve your child well when she enters school.
• The knowledge that reading is fun! Early reading for toddlers helps them view books as an indulgence, not a chore. Kids who are exposed to reading are much more likely to choose books over video games, television, and other forms of entertainment as they grow older.
It is also a great way to teach reading to. I like to run my finger under the words to show which way we read from left to right it is also a great way to increase vocabulary. I look forward to keeping you updated with my progress.
Happy Teaching
Kimba
I have decided this year to up the anti on reading to my kidlets. I have entered into the 1000 book challenge on the Brillkids Forum. Of all the things I do for early learning this is the one I fail at the most or I am least consistent on and that is reading to my Kids. I find that I just do not make time for it in my schedule of things to do. BUT this year that is going to change. Don't get me wrong I do read to them but it is just not every day and that is what I want to change.
The rules are.
- To be counted the books must be different
- Picture books with words count for my little dd but not my big dd
- Chapter books-each chapter counts as 1 book
- Repeat readings of the same book do not count.
Why is reading to children so important? From the website earlymoments.com
• A stronger relationship with you. As your child grows older, he’ll be on the move—playing, running, and constantly exploring his environment. Snuggling up with a book lets the two of you slow down and recaptures that sweet, cuddly time you enjoyed when he was a baby. Instead of being seen as a chore or a task, reading will become a nurturing activity that will bring the two of you closer together.
• Basic speech skills. Throughout toddlerhood and preschool, your child is learning critical language and enunciation skills. By listening to you read One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish, your child is reinforcing the basic sounds that form language. “Pretend reading”—when a toddler pages through a book with squeals and jabbers of delight—is a very important pre-literacy activity. As a preschooler, your child will likely begin sounding out words on his own.
• The basics of how to read a book. Children aren’t born with an innate knowledge that text is read from left to right, or that the words on a page are separate from the images. Essential pre-reading skills like these are among the major benefits of early reading.
• Better communication skills. When you spend time reading to toddlers, they’ll be much more likely to express themselves and relate to others in a healthy way. By witnessing the interactions between the characters in the books you read, as well as the contact with you during story time, your child is gaining valuable communication skills.
• Mastery of languages. Early reading for toddlers has been linked to a better grasp of the fundamentals of language as they approach school age.
• More logical thinking skills. Another illustration of the importance of reading to children is their ability to grasp abstract concepts, apply logic in various scenarios, recognize cause and effect, and utilize good judgment. As your toddler or preschooler begins to relate the scenarios in books to what’s happening in his own world, he’ll become more excited about the stories you share.
• Acclamation to new experiences. As your child approaches a major developmental milestone or a potentially stressful experience, sharing a relevant story is a great way to help ease the transition. For instance, if your little one is nervous about starting preschool, reading a story dealing with this topic shows her that her anxiety is normal.
• Enhanced concentration and discipline. Toddlers may initially squirm and become distracted during story time, but eventually they’ll learn to stay put for the duration of the book. Along with reading comprehension comes a stronger self-discipline, longer attention span, and better memory retention, all of which will serve your child well when she enters school.
• The knowledge that reading is fun! Early reading for toddlers helps them view books as an indulgence, not a chore. Kids who are exposed to reading are much more likely to choose books over video games, television, and other forms of entertainment as they grow older.
It is also a great way to teach reading to. I like to run my finger under the words to show which way we read from left to right it is also a great way to increase vocabulary. I look forward to keeping you updated with my progress.
Happy Teaching
Kimba
Monday, January 2, 2012
Welcome to a new year
Welcome back everyone to a new year of Early Learning. I hope for it to be an exciting year with me sharing what I am doing with my two little dds.
Today was the first day we got back into early learning with both my daughters. The lead up to Christmas has been hectic to say the least and was almost impossible for my eldest daughter to concentrate with the impending visit of 'Santa' and then we had people come stay with us for the Xmas/new year period so we had a holiday from our daily routine.
So what's in store for 2012 alot actually. This year want to focus more on Right Brain Education especially with my eldest and work on photographic memory, speed reading and speed math as well. I will be mainly doing this through the Wink Programme from Right Brain Kids and will be continuing to do flash cards with my youngest. I will introduce the wink Programme when my Eldest daughter starts showing signs that she is willing to listen. Lately she has been very difficult and loves an argument.Since the programme requires you to be able to listen and follow instruction I will have to wait until a certain Miss is a little more amenable.
My Husband and I are also focusing more on Music and have bought Miss S a piano keyboard and some software to help teach you the piano if Miss S really takes to it we will get her lessons. have written about the importance of Music before and I will continue to write about Music as time goes on.
I will continue to keep going with her reading and writing. I am planning on doing the 1000 book challenge which is me reading 1000 books to my kiddies this year.It works out to be approx 3 books a day, which is very do-able. I have already read 6 to them today and I plan on introducing small chapter books to my eldest for me to read to her and also working on reading comprehension. Miss S writing is slowly getting there. We are continuing to do workbooks and I am trying to get her to write a shopping list when we go shopping. She does about 3 words and then has had enough.
As with Maths we will continue to do workbooks but I plan on doing Jones' Genius Maths which she is now ready for. I look forward to dong that with her.
Well that's it for now
Signing out,
Kimba
Today was the first day we got back into early learning with both my daughters. The lead up to Christmas has been hectic to say the least and was almost impossible for my eldest daughter to concentrate with the impending visit of 'Santa' and then we had people come stay with us for the Xmas/new year period so we had a holiday from our daily routine.
So what's in store for 2012 alot actually. This year want to focus more on Right Brain Education especially with my eldest and work on photographic memory, speed reading and speed math as well. I will be mainly doing this through the Wink Programme from Right Brain Kids and will be continuing to do flash cards with my youngest. I will introduce the wink Programme when my Eldest daughter starts showing signs that she is willing to listen. Lately she has been very difficult and loves an argument.Since the programme requires you to be able to listen and follow instruction I will have to wait until a certain Miss is a little more amenable.
My Husband and I are also focusing more on Music and have bought Miss S a piano keyboard and some software to help teach you the piano if Miss S really takes to it we will get her lessons. have written about the importance of Music before and I will continue to write about Music as time goes on.
I will continue to keep going with her reading and writing. I am planning on doing the 1000 book challenge which is me reading 1000 books to my kiddies this year.It works out to be approx 3 books a day, which is very do-able. I have already read 6 to them today and I plan on introducing small chapter books to my eldest for me to read to her and also working on reading comprehension. Miss S writing is slowly getting there. We are continuing to do workbooks and I am trying to get her to write a shopping list when we go shopping. She does about 3 words and then has had enough.
As with Maths we will continue to do workbooks but I plan on doing Jones' Genius Maths which she is now ready for. I look forward to dong that with her.
Well that's it for now
Signing out,
Kimba
Monday, December 5, 2011
Little Reader Chinese Review.
Hi Readers,
I have had the pleasure of doing a review on Little Reader Chinese. Now Chinese is a language I would love to teach my girls. It is very different language from English and as time goes on I believe it will be a great asset to have as China position themselves to be the next 'world power' and I think having Chinese as a language will be a huge advantage to my girl's future.
Little Reader Chinese certainly helps in making that process of learning a language easier. Do I expect that my girls will become fluent in Chinese by watching this programme? No I don't. I am aware that interaction is needed between real people to learn a language do I think it will give them a good grounding in Chinese?Yes I do which is why I will recommend the program to people.
So here are the pros's
There are now numerous studies done on the benefits of being Bi-Lingual if I was to invest in anything I would invest heavily on my children being fluent in another language. A great book to read is the Bi-Lingual Edge written by two linguists and it is a great reference for 'how to' teach a second language when you don't speak one.
I hope this review has been helpful for you and you can make a decision on your next resource educational resource.
Kimba.
Disclaimer: I was given a free copy of Little Reader Chinese 6 months curriculum in exchange for my honest review.
I have had the pleasure of doing a review on Little Reader Chinese. Now Chinese is a language I would love to teach my girls. It is very different language from English and as time goes on I believe it will be a great asset to have as China position themselves to be the next 'world power' and I think having Chinese as a language will be a huge advantage to my girl's future.
Little Reader Chinese certainly helps in making that process of learning a language easier. Do I expect that my girls will become fluent in Chinese by watching this programme? No I don't. I am aware that interaction is needed between real people to learn a language do I think it will give them a good grounding in Chinese?Yes I do which is why I will recommend the program to people.
So here are the pros's
- A complete programme where all you have to do is press play
- Native Mandarin speakers used so your child hears exactly how the words are pronounced.
- Your choice of Traditional or Simplified Chinese to teach your child
- The programme also teaches phonics which certainly helps me as I am trying to learn along with my child. It shows each letter in English and how it is pronounced in Chinese.
- The programme works exactly the same as the English version and it starts by teaching single words, than couplets, than phrases, than sentences. It is all set out perfectly so you don't have to worry about making adjustments.
- If you know Mandarin yourself you can customise the content to suit your needs if you wish.
- There is no Pin Yin attached to the Chinese character so your child learns to read the character rather than its English phonic alternative. I believe this to be a huge positive as I am trying to learn Chinese and I rely heavily on the Pin Yin to be able to pronounce the word rather than learning how to read the character its self.
- Reasonably priced it certainly wont break the bank purchasing this product.
- On the odd occasion there is a sound file missing with the word but they can be easily remedied by a quick email to the BrillKids team who are more than willing to help.
There are now numerous studies done on the benefits of being Bi-Lingual if I was to invest in anything I would invest heavily on my children being fluent in another language. A great book to read is the Bi-Lingual Edge written by two linguists and it is a great reference for 'how to' teach a second language when you don't speak one.
I hope this review has been helpful for you and you can make a decision on your next resource educational resource.
Kimba.
Disclaimer: I was given a free copy of Little Reader Chinese 6 months curriculum in exchange for my honest review.
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Hello Readers,
As the year draws to a close and the busy Xmas period begins I have started reflecting on what I would like to teach my girls next year. Bit by bit I'm starting to work things out in my mind. I have decided to work on more practical life things with Miss S and start helping her to develop her independence. I am a devotee to the Montessori method of education and I believe in the teaching of children to take care of themselves. I still do alot for my eldest and I am taking away from her the chance to do things for herself and feel good about it. I guess I am having a hard time letting go and allowing her to do some things on her own. I guess it is a mother's prerogative to have a hard time of letting go of her baby and letting her grow up.
My other goals are to have her reading and writing independently and well on her way to a good and solid understanding of maths. In the second half of 2012 I will introduce the wink programme and start right brain training, which is something I am really looking forward to.
My littlest I will continue to do flashcards, show words, and step up the signing with her. I have found it harder to be consistent with the signing the second time around, and read more to her.
Well it is very late and tonight I'm feeling particularly tired.
Watch out for my Little Chinese review!!!
Kimba
As the year draws to a close and the busy Xmas period begins I have started reflecting on what I would like to teach my girls next year. Bit by bit I'm starting to work things out in my mind. I have decided to work on more practical life things with Miss S and start helping her to develop her independence. I am a devotee to the Montessori method of education and I believe in the teaching of children to take care of themselves. I still do alot for my eldest and I am taking away from her the chance to do things for herself and feel good about it. I guess I am having a hard time letting go and allowing her to do some things on her own. I guess it is a mother's prerogative to have a hard time of letting go of her baby and letting her grow up.
My other goals are to have her reading and writing independently and well on her way to a good and solid understanding of maths. In the second half of 2012 I will introduce the wink programme and start right brain training, which is something I am really looking forward to.
My littlest I will continue to do flashcards, show words, and step up the signing with her. I have found it harder to be consistent with the signing the second time around, and read more to her.
Well it is very late and tonight I'm feeling particularly tired.
Watch out for my Little Chinese review!!!
Kimba
Monday, November 28, 2011
What a month.
Hello long lost readers,
I have had a busy month this month with my littlest dd. She has been not been a well girl this month with 8 trips to the Dr's plus a trip to the hospital. She is getting better and has certainly picked up but her poor little chest keeps playing up.
I have continued with my early learning with my older one and we have been working on four Kumon books. Doing a couple of pages each day and working our way through it.
Just a small update to let you know that I have not disappeared.
Kimba
I have had a busy month this month with my littlest dd. She has been not been a well girl this month with 8 trips to the Dr's plus a trip to the hospital. She is getting better and has certainly picked up but her poor little chest keeps playing up.
I have continued with my early learning with my older one and we have been working on four Kumon books. Doing a couple of pages each day and working our way through it.
Just a small update to let you know that I have not disappeared.
Kimba
Monday, November 7, 2011
Asthma!!! Asthma, Asthma
Hi Everyone,
So over the last six weeks I have been back and forth to the Doctor over my youngest DD's breathing. She has had a wheeze that she has been unable to shake and now after today since we can't get her wheeze under control she starts a prednisolone for 5 days tomorrow. I can tell you right now that I am absolutely not happy about this at all. I do not like the idea of my 11 month old baby on steroids. I am now on a constant search to help her get better. I have a strong family history of Asthma and I do not fancy trips to the hospital in the middle of the night or a life time of steroid treatment to keep it under control. She also seems to have a dairy allergy as well.
I am also concerned as she is coming up for her 12month immunisations (MMR and approx 4 others) and I am very, very concerned about this. I feel at this point of time that she is not well enough to take the on-slaught of bugs on (as I feel) a compromised immune system. I am not against vaccination I just want to make sure she is 100% well before I do go ahead with it. In Australia we are lucky enough that we can conscientiously object as long as we have a talk to the dr about it first which is more like an intervention than it is a talk. (It is not the first time I have voiced my concerns).
I guess right now I am trying to get my thoughts down and see what the pros and cons are. I am very afraid that the immunisation right now could possibly make things worse for her and having it a bit later might be better for her or not at all. I wish this was an easy decision to make. I feel if I don't, I don't just hurt her if she gets anything but I could possibly hurt the community around her (Herd immunity) If I do do it and her immune system can't take it I could possibly make things worse for her own health.
My little Miss is causing me a lot of worry and I am losing sleep over it. If any one could point me in the right direction it would be much appreciated. I am now looking at natural health/western health alternatives to her asthma and my dilemma with immunisation?
Thanks In advance
Kimba
So over the last six weeks I have been back and forth to the Doctor over my youngest DD's breathing. She has had a wheeze that she has been unable to shake and now after today since we can't get her wheeze under control she starts a prednisolone for 5 days tomorrow. I can tell you right now that I am absolutely not happy about this at all. I do not like the idea of my 11 month old baby on steroids. I am now on a constant search to help her get better. I have a strong family history of Asthma and I do not fancy trips to the hospital in the middle of the night or a life time of steroid treatment to keep it under control. She also seems to have a dairy allergy as well.
I am also concerned as she is coming up for her 12month immunisations (MMR and approx 4 others) and I am very, very concerned about this. I feel at this point of time that she is not well enough to take the on-slaught of bugs on (as I feel) a compromised immune system. I am not against vaccination I just want to make sure she is 100% well before I do go ahead with it. In Australia we are lucky enough that we can conscientiously object as long as we have a talk to the dr about it first which is more like an intervention than it is a talk. (It is not the first time I have voiced my concerns).
I guess right now I am trying to get my thoughts down and see what the pros and cons are. I am very afraid that the immunisation right now could possibly make things worse for her and having it a bit later might be better for her or not at all. I wish this was an easy decision to make. I feel if I don't, I don't just hurt her if she gets anything but I could possibly hurt the community around her (Herd immunity) If I do do it and her immune system can't take it I could possibly make things worse for her own health.
My little Miss is causing me a lot of worry and I am losing sleep over it. If any one could point me in the right direction it would be much appreciated. I am now looking at natural health/western health alternatives to her asthma and my dilemma with immunisation?
Thanks In advance
Kimba
Monday, October 31, 2011
Not every child a genius!!!!
The article below has struck a cord with me and not in a good way. There are sooo many experts that say IQ is something that is set in stone and largely genetic but I disagree. I think environment has a huge role in how intelligent we become!!!
I am beginning to think that experts (after years of being institutionalised in University) become a little set in their ways of thinking and are unable to 'see' any other way. Read the article below and tell me what you think.
This article was written on June 19th 2009
Not Every Child Is Secretly a Genius
By Christopher Ferguson
The idea of intelligence —that human beings possess, to
varying degrees, an innate and universal ability to learn—has taken a
beating in recent decades. Ever since Stephen J. Gould's Mismeasurement of Man (Norton, 1981) and Howard Gardner's Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences
(Basic Books, 1983), the notion of a single intelligence entity,
typically called "g," has come under assault. That is unfortunate.A number of scholars, including L.L. Thurstone and more recently Robert J. Sternberg, have argued that intelligence has been defined too narrowly. But Gardner, a professor of cognition and education at the Harvard Graduate School of Education, who won a prestigious MacArthur Foundation "genius award" in 1981, has had enormous influence, particularly in our schools.
Briefly, he has posited that our intellectual abilities are divided among at least eight abilities: verbal-linguistic, logical-mathematical, visual-spatial, bodily-kinesthetic, naturalistic, musical, interpersonal, and intrapersonal. The appealing elements of the theory are numerous.
It's "cool," to start with: The list-like format has great attraction for introductory psychology and education classes. It also seems to jibe well with the common observation that individuals have particular talents. More important, especially for education, it implicitly (although perhaps unintentionally on Gardner's part) promises that each child has strengths as well as weaknesses. With eight separate intelligences, the odds seem good that every child will be intelligent in one of those realms. After all, it's not called the theory of multiple stupidities.
Multiple intelligences put every child on an equal footing, granting the hope of identical value in an ostensible meritocracy. The theory fits well with a number of the assumptions that have dominated educational philosophy for years. The movements that took flower in the mid-20th century have argued for the essential sameness of all healthy human beings and for a policy of social justice that treats all people the same. Above all, many educators have adhered to the social construction of reality—the idea that redefining the way we treat children will redefine their abilities and future successes. (Perhaps that's what leads some parents to put their faith in "Baby Einstein" videos: the hope that a little nurturing television will send their kids to Harvard.) It would be difficult to overestimate the influence of Gardner's work, both in repudiating that elitist, unfair concept of "g" and in guiding thought in psychology as it applies to education.
The only problem, with all respect to Gardner: There probably is just a single intelligence or capacity to learn, not multiple ones devoted to independent tasks. To varying degrees, some individuals have this capacity, and others do not. To be sure, there is much debate about Gardner's theory in the literature, with contenders for and against. Nonetheless, empirical evidence has not been robust. While the theory sounds nice (perhaps because it sounds nice), it is more intuitive than empirical. In other words, the eight intelligences are based more on philosophy than on data.
Of course, nothing is ever cut and dried when it comes to the social sciences. Gardner and the psychologist Lynn Waterhouse engaged in a lively debate in the journal Educational Psychologist in 2006. While the exchange was informative, empirical evidence to support multiple intelligences was largely absent. As Waterhouse put it, the theory is "persisting without adequate evidence"—and was likely to continue to do so, she added, because of the "good news stories" it provides. By contrast, a wealth of evidence supports the existence of "g," which, contrary to the claims (or wishes) of some people, remains a strong predictor of academic performance, job performance—particularly in highly technical careers or those requiring decision making—and other markers of "success."
Another issue with the theory of multiple intelligences is that too many of the categories correlate too highly with one another to be separate intelligences. Cognitive performance on skills related to verbal-linguistic, logical-mathematical, and visual-spatial tasks, as well as many memory tasks, tends to be highly related. In other words, it goes back to "g."
The remaining intelligences have nothing to do with intelligence or cognitive skills per se, but rather represent personal interests (for example, musical represents an affinity for music; naturalistic, an affinity for biology or geology) or personality traits (interpersonal or intrapersonal skills, which correspond best to the related concept of emotional intelligence). And even those interest areas may be enhanced by "g." Only bodily-kinesthetic—the ability to manipulate one's own body with dexterity—may truly represent a separate cognitive ability, probably stemming from cerebellar activity involved in fine motor control. It may be better represented as a neurophysiological trait than as intelligence. Even for related activities—dancing, for instance—having at least a modicum of "g" is still going to be necessary to learn, say, complex dance choreography.
Finally, as Waterhouse noted in her exchange with Gardner, the theory of multiple intelligences has little value for clinical testing of intelligence or the prediction of future performance. "G" alone is highly predictive of both academic and work success. The other intelligences, or whatever they are, add very little.
Part of the confusion that has allowed the theory to survive long past the stage of empirical disrepute is the irascible debate regarding what intelligence is in the first place. Intelligence is among the most stable of psychological constructs. It is as possible to define it both operationally and conceptually as it is for almost any other psychological variable, although that might not be saying much. At worst, intelligence is like pornography: I may not be able to define it to the satisfaction of all, but I sure know it when I see it (or, in the case of intelligence, when I come across its absence). At the optimistic extreme, a reasonable definition of intelligence is not hard to come by. Intelligence: An innate cognitive ability that powers learning. Perfect? No. But that's basically it.
Aren't there plenty of Ph.D.'s who can't fix their cars? Sure, but the majority of them could learn if they were so inclined. An individual with low "g" is going to struggle at both book learning and auto repair (although perhaps car mechanics would prove more manageable than literary theory or quantum physics). In other words, individuals high in "g" are going to be able to learn a wider range of activities with greater ease than individuals low in "g". The "g" that assisted our hominid forebears in learning the skills of hunting, gathering, and toolmaking is the same "g" that gives gifted/talented students an advantage in calculus. Of course, one person can't learn everything, so some folks pick, say, European history over Math Without Numbers (or whatever the rage is in mathematics these days). The theory of multiple intelligences fundamentally conflates intelligence and motivation. It's a fatal flaw. Motivation is certainly important, and it works alongside intelligence to produce results. However, having the raw biological machinery of intelligence is simply irreplaceable.
Perhaps in a naïve effort to deny that inconvenient truth, the debate about intelligence has become largely political, at times even facetious. Intelligence certainly is not the only predictor of success in work or in school, college, or scholarship, but it's as strong as any. Unfortunately, it's also largely genetic. Social justice, treating people the same, bringing out their best abilities are all worthy ideals. Yet we must be cautious when ideals conflict with reality. The world in which we live has no obligation to be politically correct. And it is not politically correct to say that one person is, well, simply more talented than another.
Despite some naysayers (think of Richard E. Nisbett's Intelligence and How to Get It: Why Schools and Cultures Count, published this year by Norton), evidence from behavioral-genetics studies has long shown that environment plays a much smaller role than inheritance in the development of intelligence. And that's defining "environment" so broadly that it includes head injuries, infections like encephalitis, malnourishment, and neglect. You've probably heard of those studies of twins raised separately who show similar intellectual abilities when reunited 50 years later. Many people like to think that any child, with the proper nurturance, can blossom into some kind of academic oak tree, tall and proud. It's just not so.
Multiple intelligences provides a kind of cover to preserve that fable. "OK, little Jimmie may not be a rocket scientist, but he can dance real well. Shouldn't that count equally in school and life?" No. The great dancers of the Pleistocene foxtrotted their way into the stomach of a saber-tooth tiger.
That is the root of the matter. Too many people have chosen to believe in what they wish to be true rather than in what is true. In the main, the motive is a pure one: to see every child as having equal potential, or at the very least some potential. Intelligence is a fundamentally meritocratic construct. There are winners and there are losers. A relative doofus may live a comfortable life so long as his or her parents are wealthy. However, clawing one's own way out of abject poverty is best achieved with a healthy dose of both motivation and "g."
Naturally, we must be careful to avoid the fallacy that some people deserve to live in poverty, or that entire groups of people are inherently inferior in regard to intelligence. In the past, those arguments have been used to support oppression, racism, and slavery, and we must not repeat those mistakes.
Yet the belief that intelligence does not exist as a single, reliable, important, genetically determined construct is an equal fallacy. Unfortunately, some children and adults are just unintelligent. It's not fair, it's not politically correct, but reality is under no obligation to be either of those.
A pedagogy designed to identify strong and weak areas of achievement is not a bad idea. But believing that such an approach rests on the existence of multiple intelligences has real risks. It could lead us down the path to intellectual relativism. Students encouraged to explore their talents in dance or socializing may find themselves slammed against a wall of reality when expected to actually know how to do algebra or read a book in college. I'm not opposed to exploring those talents (that's what recess and gym classes are for, and getting rid of them has been a horrible idea), but national and international tests indicate that we may be doing so to such an extent that we are overwhelming our curricula.
Gardner's theory of multiple intelligences was a great idea and worth investigating. It's just not panning out. Hanging on to the theory for nostalgic or political value is not science. It's time that we begin to work with the reality that we have, not the one we wish we had. To do otherwise would be just plain stupid.
Christopher J. Ferguson has been promoted to
associate professor in the department of behavioral and applied
sciences, and criminal justice at Texas A&M International
University.
Sunday, October 9, 2011
How to start teaching your baby to read.
Hi Everyone,
I thought I would start a bit of a series on teaching a baby to read and cover off each week some of the ways I have been using with both of my children to teach them to read. Each week I will go through 1 way in detail and you can post questions or comments.
This Week I will cover "How to get started in teaching your baby to read"
1. Where do I start? It is very overwhelming and exciting when you first think you can teach your child to read there is so much information on how to do it and so many ways, you can give up before you have started. So here is a list of questions you need to ask yourself before you start to help you narrow down what is the best way for you and your child.
When I start this program will I be working outside the home? This is a very important question to ask if you are going to use a ready made program or DIY it. A reading program must be delivered in a fun stress free way and if you are working you need to make it easy on yourself. Sometimes it is really good to just press play and watch a DVD or computer program and sit down and enjoy the program with your child and join in with them. You can also buy many programs that come with Flashcards already made and a set of instructions for you to follow and its as easy as 1,2,3. You can still DIY it if you want to but it is time consuming to make your own flashcards. I have made my own and it is time consuming but rewarding to see your work.
How comfortable am I using a computer program/DVD Program? There is a lot of 'research' out in the market today that TV for an under to is a no no. Personally I agree 'normal children's programming' probably should be avoided it is crap with alot of the TV shows set up with characters who do not speak properly or programs that are touted as educational but actually teach nothing. Educational DVDs from my own anecdotal evidence do teach.My eldest DD learnt to read from Your Baby Can Read program and learned to sign over 400 hundred signs from a program called signing time. Please be aware that children do learn from television programs.
Do I want to make my own Flashcards? Time consuming but can be very rewarding.
How much time am I willing to devote to making my own cards? Making your own flashcards is time consuming and you will need at least 200 to get you started and you will be amazed at how quickly you go through them. It is very rewarding to put all that love and effort in and see your child enjoy them. You will need to devote at least a couple of hours every night to making flashcards. The words will need to be large and clear. You will need approx 100 nouns, 50-75 verbs and 25-50 adjectives to get started.
Do I have any other commitments other than my child/ren that could possibly interrupt the reading process? (You may volunteer during the day? or have sick parents you are taking care of. You are studying and that needs all of your attention? Anything that could interrupt the consistency on a regular basis or make you forget? Like anything consistency is king if you wish to master something. If you want to teach your child to read you will need to be committed. Just like doing a reader every night when they are in school. If you have something in your life right now which is putting you under alot of stress now is not the time to start a reading program, it is better to wait and get over what ever is happening in your life so you can give your time and energy to it.
Another thing that is important and often over looked is how you deliver the reading process. Your tone of voice, your own happiness, or even if you are tired and don't really want to do it or even if you are bored because you don't think your child is learning all of this teaches your child what to think about reading. Remember how you deliver the reading program is just as important as what you deliver.
Now you have answered those questions the next question is....
When do I start? ASAP or if your are pregnant or have a newborn and you are reading this it's as soon as the baby can track with their eyes. So if the baby spots you from across the room and follows you with their eyes or you hold your finger up and your baby follows it. You can start a reading program with them.
I hope this is helpful.
Kimba
Next week I will cover some of the pros and cons with teaching a baby to read and how to overcome them.
Remember my Little Reader Give Away click here to enter http://intellikidsdownunder.blogspot.com/2011/09/little-reader-review-with-little-reader.html
I thought I would start a bit of a series on teaching a baby to read and cover off each week some of the ways I have been using with both of my children to teach them to read. Each week I will go through 1 way in detail and you can post questions or comments.
This Week I will cover "How to get started in teaching your baby to read"
1. Where do I start? It is very overwhelming and exciting when you first think you can teach your child to read there is so much information on how to do it and so many ways, you can give up before you have started. So here is a list of questions you need to ask yourself before you start to help you narrow down what is the best way for you and your child.
When I start this program will I be working outside the home? This is a very important question to ask if you are going to use a ready made program or DIY it. A reading program must be delivered in a fun stress free way and if you are working you need to make it easy on yourself. Sometimes it is really good to just press play and watch a DVD or computer program and sit down and enjoy the program with your child and join in with them. You can also buy many programs that come with Flashcards already made and a set of instructions for you to follow and its as easy as 1,2,3. You can still DIY it if you want to but it is time consuming to make your own flashcards. I have made my own and it is time consuming but rewarding to see your work.
How comfortable am I using a computer program/DVD Program? There is a lot of 'research' out in the market today that TV for an under to is a no no. Personally I agree 'normal children's programming' probably should be avoided it is crap with alot of the TV shows set up with characters who do not speak properly or programs that are touted as educational but actually teach nothing. Educational DVDs from my own anecdotal evidence do teach.My eldest DD learnt to read from Your Baby Can Read program and learned to sign over 400 hundred signs from a program called signing time. Please be aware that children do learn from television programs.
Do I want to make my own Flashcards? Time consuming but can be very rewarding.
How much time am I willing to devote to making my own cards? Making your own flashcards is time consuming and you will need at least 200 to get you started and you will be amazed at how quickly you go through them. It is very rewarding to put all that love and effort in and see your child enjoy them. You will need to devote at least a couple of hours every night to making flashcards. The words will need to be large and clear. You will need approx 100 nouns, 50-75 verbs and 25-50 adjectives to get started.
Do I have any other commitments other than my child/ren that could possibly interrupt the reading process? (You may volunteer during the day? or have sick parents you are taking care of. You are studying and that needs all of your attention? Anything that could interrupt the consistency on a regular basis or make you forget? Like anything consistency is king if you wish to master something. If you want to teach your child to read you will need to be committed. Just like doing a reader every night when they are in school. If you have something in your life right now which is putting you under alot of stress now is not the time to start a reading program, it is better to wait and get over what ever is happening in your life so you can give your time and energy to it.
Another thing that is important and often over looked is how you deliver the reading process. Your tone of voice, your own happiness, or even if you are tired and don't really want to do it or even if you are bored because you don't think your child is learning all of this teaches your child what to think about reading. Remember how you deliver the reading program is just as important as what you deliver.
Now you have answered those questions the next question is....
When do I start? ASAP or if your are pregnant or have a newborn and you are reading this it's as soon as the baby can track with their eyes. So if the baby spots you from across the room and follows you with their eyes or you hold your finger up and your baby follows it. You can start a reading program with them.
I hope this is helpful.
Kimba
Next week I will cover some of the pros and cons with teaching a baby to read and how to overcome them.
Remember my Little Reader Give Away click here to enter http://intellikidsdownunder.blogspot.com/2011/09/little-reader-review-with-little-reader.html
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Taming the toilet training tyrant.
Hi Everyone,
If you have read my posts over this last year you would know that Miss S has been somewhat very resistant to the toilet training process. I have tried every trick in the book to try and get her to go on the toilet. Sticker charts, gifts, chocolate, you name it, I've tried it and it has always led back to her being in nappies until I finally found a way to dismantle the power struggle between us.
Miss S started asking to use the toilet when she was approx 2 1/2 years old and for the first few days she would go but after that or when she got busy she would decided not to go, so I would start reminding her to go every half hour and then she would flatly refuse to go or come and stand next to me and go to the toilet and say "Mummy I'm doing a wee." Almost to say "Mum, because you have nagged me to go I'm going to go right here and stick it up you." :) So now we had become locked into a power struggle that has resulted in 5 attempts to get her to go to the toilet with this one final attempt and with me threatening my husband that I am going to go insane if I have to change one more 3 year old nappy.
So after months of trawling the Internet to find a solution I finally found one http://www.rogerknapp.com/medical/pottytrainingrefusals.htm This has been one life saver of an article. I read it and sent the article to my husband who also read it. I said since Miss S and I were in such a power struggle, it was best if the conversation came from him but I sat with him so we stood as a united front.
So this is what we did:
This article has been a lifesaver for me and I now have a little girl who is going to the toilet pretty much all the time, she even went to daycare where she has been incredibly stubborn to and stayed dry the whole day and even did poos in the toilet. She has gone from being a toilet training tyrant to going to the toilet (except for night time) all the time in less than a week.
I hope this article helps you as much as it has helped me.
Kimba
Ps Remember to enter my Little Reader give away. Just read this blog and follow the rules http://intellikidsdownunder.blogspot.com/2011/09/little-reader-review-with-little-reader.html
If you have read my posts over this last year you would know that Miss S has been somewhat very resistant to the toilet training process. I have tried every trick in the book to try and get her to go on the toilet. Sticker charts, gifts, chocolate, you name it, I've tried it and it has always led back to her being in nappies until I finally found a way to dismantle the power struggle between us.
Miss S started asking to use the toilet when she was approx 2 1/2 years old and for the first few days she would go but after that or when she got busy she would decided not to go, so I would start reminding her to go every half hour and then she would flatly refuse to go or come and stand next to me and go to the toilet and say "Mummy I'm doing a wee." Almost to say "Mum, because you have nagged me to go I'm going to go right here and stick it up you." :) So now we had become locked into a power struggle that has resulted in 5 attempts to get her to go to the toilet with this one final attempt and with me threatening my husband that I am going to go insane if I have to change one more 3 year old nappy.
So after months of trawling the Internet to find a solution I finally found one http://www.rogerknapp.com/medical/pottytrainingrefusals.htm This has been one life saver of an article. I read it and sent the article to my husband who also read it. I said since Miss S and I were in such a power struggle, it was best if the conversation came from him but I sat with him so we stood as a united front.
So this is what we did:
- Sat her down and told her that she was now a big girl and she was the one responsible for her own wees and poos and Mummy and Daddy were no longer going to change her or clean up her poos.
- Told her that we were no longer going to buy nappies or pullups for her because she was a big girl and no longer needed them during the day.
- That Knickers would be earned and she was going to have a bare bottom until she proved she could go to the toilet all by herself. (Best done on weekend when you are not planning on going anywhere)
- Apologised for all the nagging and being on her back about going to the toilet and this was the last talk that we were going to have on going to the toilet.
- Allowed her to pick the the reward she wanted (Could not be a material reward had to be something like time with a favourite toy or game and the time was limited) The Dr suggested 30-60minutes I thought 20minutes was fine since Miss S asked to play with the ipad.
- You as the parent are in control of the reward which means when the time is up the time is up no ifs or buts or please mum 5 more minutes. No! it is this amount of time and no more no less. If they ask for the reward at any other time and have not gone to the potty you need to say Sweetie when you are responsible for going to the toilet you can have the Ipad or toy or DVD whatever it is. Never bring the wees and poos back on you your child needs to do it.
- If there was an accident or refusal you just put it back on them and gently say "Well,honey Mummy is not going to clean up your poo or wee because you are responsible for your waste and not me." or "Next time sweetie you need to listen to your body better". Make sure they clean up there mess because they will never learn that they are responsible for it if they hate doing it and scream and yell keep making them do it because they will soon learn that you mean what you say. I know it sounds cruel but remember your not dealing with a child who can't go to the toilet your dealing with a child who wont go.
- STAND STRONG AND DO NOT GIVE IN.
This article has been a lifesaver for me and I now have a little girl who is going to the toilet pretty much all the time, she even went to daycare where she has been incredibly stubborn to and stayed dry the whole day and even did poos in the toilet. She has gone from being a toilet training tyrant to going to the toilet (except for night time) all the time in less than a week.
I hope this article helps you as much as it has helped me.
Kimba
Ps Remember to enter my Little Reader give away. Just read this blog and follow the rules http://intellikidsdownunder.blogspot.com/2011/09/little-reader-review-with-little-reader.html
Friday, September 30, 2011
Little reader review with a Little Reader Giveaway
Hi Everyone,
I have been waiting with baited breathe to do a review on Little Reader for a long time and its even better now I have semester 1 to give away.
If you have been interested in teaching your baby to read and have felt overwhelmed by all the information or wondering where to start or even if you work outside the home than this is a great product to help you teach your baby to read. I have been using Little Reader (LR) now for two years. I first used it with my eldest daughter now 3 (yes she is reading) and I am now using it with my second daughter who is almost 10months. Both my DD's have really enjoyed learning from this computer based program and it has certainly been a stress reliever for me having an already ready curriculum to go, especially as I was working part time 3 days a week when I started this program with my eldest daughter. As it was already prepared I would show her one session in the morning before I went to work and Miss S went to day care and another in the evening when I got home from work.I found it a great thing to share with my eldest daughter she would sit on my lap and I would show her the words and the videos and we would giggle and do the actions together.
So I will do a Pros's and Con's List.
Now if you are interested in winning a 6 month Little Reader curriculum here is what you need to do
Conditions of entry.
Kimba
Disclaimer: I was given a free copy of Little Reader basic 6 months curriculum to giveaway in exchange for my honest review.
**Please go ahead and enter the comments seem to be working***
I have been waiting with baited breathe to do a review on Little Reader for a long time and its even better now I have semester 1 to give away.
If you have been interested in teaching your baby to read and have felt overwhelmed by all the information or wondering where to start or even if you work outside the home than this is a great product to help you teach your baby to read. I have been using Little Reader (LR) now for two years. I first used it with my eldest daughter now 3 (yes she is reading) and I am now using it with my second daughter who is almost 10months. Both my DD's have really enjoyed learning from this computer based program and it has certainly been a stress reliever for me having an already ready curriculum to go, especially as I was working part time 3 days a week when I started this program with my eldest daughter. As it was already prepared I would show her one session in the morning before I went to work and Miss S went to day care and another in the evening when I got home from work.I found it a great thing to share with my eldest daughter she would sit on my lap and I would show her the words and the videos and we would giggle and do the actions together.
So I will do a Pros's and Con's List.
- It has a year curriculum already made so there is nothing to stress about. All you have to do is press play twice a day
- It is convenient. Just take your laptop anywhere and the lessons go with you. If you go on holiday your child's lessons don't need to stop.
- It has a printer function so you can print the words and stick them up around the house or if you just wanted to show your child some tangible flashcards.
- The lessons are customisable. You can put your own voice over the words or make your own presentations which include pictures of family.
- There is a UK English version as well as a US English version. So you can change it to suit the English your region of the world uses.
- There is a support team to help you if you have any problems getting LR to run.
- Simplified and Traditional Chinese is available and you can purchase that if want to expose your child to another language.
- Great for Mummy/Mommy's or Daddy's who work and do not have the time to make flashcards.
- A description of each word is shown so your child has a full understanding of what each word means. For example The word Jump with an arrow running under the word from left to right to show which way the word goes. Than a picture of someone jumping and then there is a video of a person jumping up and down.
- Pattern Phonics which flashes family of words cat, hat, mat, van, pan can. So children understand that the words are made up of similar sounds. Also helps with being able to sound out new words latter on.Here is a you tube video of baby Nim reading at 16months http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRdQCsPvxco
- You can get a free 14 day trial and see if Little Reader is for you and your family by clicking on the Little Reader icon on the top right hand side Bar
- Mine has been a little prone to crashing but it is all fixed now
- Other than that there really aren't any
Now if you are interested in winning a 6 month Little Reader curriculum here is what you need to do
- Comment on this blog and tell me in 25 words or less why you would like Little Reader to teach your babies to read.
- Follow me on my blog.
Conditions of entry.
- You can not already own Little Reader.
- Any spam comments will be automatically disqualified from the competition and deleted
- Entries that are received from today 1/10/11 to midnight (Australian EST time) on the 14/10/11 are valid.
- The winner has met the above criteria.
- winner will be drawn on the 17/10/11 and notified via Blogger messenger.
Kimba
Disclaimer: I was given a free copy of Little Reader basic 6 months curriculum to giveaway in exchange for my honest review.
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